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发表于 2025-2-28 15:17 | 显示全部楼层
voyeurk 发表于 2025-2-28 14:40
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7 ?/ T9 y- i1 S$ p/ n, D9 V6 s) h都有哦,要看学校要求还有地段。本科通常会要求第一年住宿舍,之后随意。学校往 ...
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好吧,看来你可能是他仅有的男一夜老婆(单纯调侃),话说当时他说give a head I'll think about it 你当时是什么心情,诧异,窃喜,稍许恐慌?
 楼主| 发表于 2025-2-28 15:38 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
橘生淮南 发表于 2025-2-28 15:17
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1 q6 s3 m' g) e3 o* q) E8 F. Z他说第一次跟男的啊,谁知道,但好像也没有必要骗我?。。。! M$ H: G+ T$ S7 W" [8 u0 z
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紧张的,后来就破罐子破摔了,反正是他引导的嘛。。。
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voyeurk 发表于 2025-2-28 15:38* ?2 [0 S, l2 A8 C, N
他说第一次跟男的啊,谁知道,但好像也没有必要骗我?。。。; x- D1 s7 n( [( X7 ~6 B" F3 F& W

/ h8 Z2 G# ?3 y. z* |1 b2 u2 f5 y- w紧张的,后来就破罐子破摔了,反正是他引导 ...
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哈哈,应该有些窃喜吧,毕竟对那时的你来说Leo可以说是暗恋对象了。 他说是第一次,那应该就是了。真是挺会玩的,不愧是Leo口中的natural,话说Dustin在此之前没给别的男生blow过吗
发表于 2025-2-28 15:52 | 显示全部楼层
voyeurk 发表于 2025-2-28 13:53
9 k, ~  \0 J: J% c3 F4 T哎,搜同的关键词真的很迷,我也没抓出什么规律来,但共识是审核应该是没人审了,只能想别的办法,例如发 ...

8 w) }  A- F- t2 l我先發一部份吧,一段一段試,看能不能發出來。I will try to put more stuffs in English and hope that makes things easier.  I'm definitely responding to the other points as well.
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, L# p1 v& ~$ Y) i( t8 j$ ^你別這樣說,這下我不好意思,你回得很快了。我都覺得你工作家庭要兼顧,還有這麼多時間寫文、回文,真的很不容易。你寫了這麼多,我寫這一點算什麼,哈哈。I can access this website using the domain name I use now, but who knows, maybe at some point in the near future things change again.  I'm too cheap to pay for "scientific tool for Internet access," at least for now.  Maybe I will change my mind if the story gets more interesting?  Lol, just kidding.8 Q3 L# R6 J) C: O
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Not exactly sure what I missed.  A photo of you guys taken from behind, and some chapters are posted as images?  Once I'm able to send you a DM, I will do so.
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It was definitely an attempt to step out of my comfort zone.  Afterall, although I didn't share much personal info, if people who know us saw what I posted here, it wouldn't be difficult to identify who we are.  不過把這段過往寫出來,本身對我來說也是種療癒吧,畢竟現在已經能很心平氣和,甚至笑笑地寫這些事情,都過去了也沒那麼在意了。哪天如果真的被人挖出來,it's still a risk that I can take。
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, B: Q1 M4 I% p$ W" M( H( XI can only post once per hour, so this is it for now.  I am saving the other parts for the next few hours, if I can get them out.  It's late over there, so even if you see my post before falling asleep, I don't want you to feel the pressure to respond right away.  I've got more stuffs to respond to you anyway.  Thanks!
 楼主| 发表于 2025-2-28 16:03 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
橘生淮南 发表于 2025-2-28 15:41
) {8 M3 c& Y( y7 M/ m9 \- w哈哈,应该有些窃喜吧,毕竟对那时的你来说Leo可以说是暗恋对象了。 他说是第一次,那应该就是了。真是挺 ...
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真是第一次,看起来可能也是唯一一次了哈哈
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& _4 l9 Z+ I0 [7 E( T其实还是紧张居多的,因为我真的都不会,他看起来这些都熟练得不行了。从他让我闻开始我都一直在催眠自己跟着节奏走就好。。。
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voyeurk 发表于 2025-2-28 16:03
* A5 F5 d% D. D真是第一次,看起来可能也是唯一一次了哈哈0 G; _: t7 ~8 a0 D- R' `3 f
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其实还是紧张居多的,因为我真的都不会,他看起来这些都熟练 ...

5 k2 E5 I" {$ t2 R1 s. k- r+ g你怎么还没睡啊Dustin,不能是在搜同上浏览美色吧(单纯调侃无恶意),(话说你结婚后还看男性相关的porn或者图片什么的吗,结婚以前呢,以及女性的呢)。浏览某些男性图片时会起反应吗(boqi)。另外恋脚这方面是只恋男性的脚吗。感觉问题有点多了,显得我像个stalker,不过小弟我并无恶意,只是单纯好奇+ x# z. E3 V' d% N% G3 |
看来他之前也没少被人blow过,另外为什么他排斥他的父亲,我记得是不想待在他父亲的阴影下?可否具体解释一下。) R& `1 i3 v; {/ _3 z( j

( A" Y/ s' ^! |5 U另外Dustin有什么海外或者北美华人论坛吗,我想上去看看, _, `7 S2 y+ K1 G' M
发表于 2025-2-28 20:51 | 显示全部楼层
voyeurk 发表于 2025-2-28 13:49
1 |' n- L! e% i3 b  Q1 D: R没啊,做饭不是一般留子的必备技能么哈哈。有了小孩儿以后就更需要拉
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- k0 G# c. w8 B* `; j# F等我写完手上的再想想哦。。。 ...

: K9 H5 l8 z/ V2 v" h可是这做饭不是说想学就能学好的,有些人再怎么学都做不好,完全一窍不通,所以楼主一直担任做饭工作,说明做的饭不错,味道好,不愧是一个优秀的男人。* Z1 p/ a7 y% J' O

9 S- e$ r5 |' Z7 T: q话说楼主吃得惯美帝的甜点之类的吗?是不是真如网上所说,甜的发鼾。Leo他能受得了吗?
发表于 2025-2-28 21:08 | 显示全部楼层
感谢分享
发表于 2025-2-28 23:30 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 enyw0413 于 2025-2-28 23:34 编辑
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voyeurk 发表于 2025-2-27 01:22
* E2 c. _- }; _$ [9 b; D& c/ Y啊,昨晚睡前就看到这个鸿篇巨制,但是要哄小孩儿睡觉,今天起床才回,见谅哈
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结果写到最后不小心拉刷新 ...
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Part 2:
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9 o8 V# `+ P5 b! X  ?6 b: XAs for myself, actually I started college uncertain about what I wanted to pursue.  At my school, freshmen started without a major anyway, and there were a lot more pre-meds, percentage-wise, than most other schools I believe (好像不小心又多說了點可能被人猜到的內容).  In the end, I decided to double-major across 2 very different disciplines.  I had always been interested in bio and chem stuffs, and being surrounded by pre-meds, I considered it at one point, too.  My grades were pretty bad (GPA一開始連3都沒有,後來才拉到3的,好在沒拿過F,靠著高中拿的AP學分還是能提早畢業了).  Maybe if I just wanted to apply to some not-so-good med schools and did extensive volunteer work, maybe I still had a shot, but I am kind of afraid of blood anyway, so eventually I decided it wasn't for me.  I was one of those very few kids that got a bachelor's degree in a bio-related field but decided not to go for a postgraduate degree (碩士跟bio不相關了).  In fact, without citizenship or PR, it is quite difficult to get into a med school in the US.  It would be a waste of American resources, if someone graduated from a US medical school could not actually work in the US afterwards, at least that was what I heard.  I think this is different from most other postgraduate schools, where the applicant's immigration status doesn't matter as much (不過樓主如果是唸public university - in fact one of the candidates within a couple of hours from Chicago that someone else mentioned earlier is where my parents went to grad school - 可能undergrad的申請in-state跟out-of-state還是有差距的吧).  我大學認識一個東南亞學弟GPA不錯,med school申請兩回都不成,後來他跟同屆美國人同學結婚(也交往很久了)拿到PR後,再申請馬上就申請到了。
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我不在pharma,算是pharma旁邊一個沒那麼多金的相關領域,誤打誤撞進來,轉眼也快10年了。After I completed my OPT, I went back to Taiwan and worked at 2 different companies, a year each, but I really could not get used to the corporate culture here.  原本考慮再投一次H-1B(有sponsor),但後來有個不是美國但也是歐美的公司願意讓我加入,我人在臺灣但替他們工作,待遇雖然沒有在歐美好,但還是比我在臺灣能找的好一些,而且我在臺灣消費也沒那麼高,做幾年了感覺也還行吧,就算比上不足比下也還是挺有餘的。(其實說了這麼多,感覺如果認識我的人要猜到是我不難,算了給人看到就給人看到吧。)
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至於他的部份,他大學時對med school比我更serious一些,後來聽了比較偏頗的建議(他事後也後悔),選了旁邊另一條較少人走的路。其實也沒跟med school差很多,but considering his privacy, I think I should not disclose much further than that.* P4 N% w% B7 J! I" ~, S7 U; j8 M
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There will be more.  All written already, just not sure how I can get them posted.
 楼主| 发表于 2025-3-1 00:46 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
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enyw0413 发表于 2025-2-28 23:30& V* k3 H; H. b
Part 2:
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As for myself, actually I started college uncertain about what I wanted to pursue.  At my  ...

, y+ {; X6 @4 ?啊,为什么你的英文都发得出来,我每次审核都是卡在英文比较多的地方。。。他歧视我TAT
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$ ~, q* Z, T+ w7 ^% E0 W! M6 \离我大学申请的日子有点远了,记不太清了,不过印象中私立比较愿意让学生转换专业,而进学校的时候完全没有专业的,好像。。。是很牛的那几间学校哎
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: d. j8 h! o! b不猜了不猜了哈哈,看完后赶快拿评论盖掉,这样被发现的几率就变低拉^ ^& J7 A: H; F7 p4 M  [; K0 G4 Z
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当然,真的很谢谢你继续分享你的故事。其实老实讲,美国医疗体系蛮broken的。当医生的门槛被抬得实在过高了,与其说是尊重生命,还不如说是在筑墙维持圈内人特权。不过印象中真的很想在美国当医生的话,好像也不一定要在这边读med school的?好像可以先在亚洲念完医生,再过来考个试这样?抱歉这不是我专业,只是略有耳闻,说错的话见谅哈
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( Z/ {* c) S# N/ x4 b5 |' g  @9 N3 ^不过悄悄告诉你,我爸妈都在国内做医生,他们其实对我选择工科没有很理解,不过还是给予了足够的尊重和支持。唯一的compromise是在他们的劝说下我有去尝试申请一间学校的pre pharm,因为药剂师看起来是个爽爽又没什么压力的职业,有一定门槛,钱不太多但稳得不行,适合我这种胸无大志的人,笑。但估计是心不够诚身份不对再加上别的不足吧,最终也没被录到
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目前世界上经济体量最大的两个国家斗得火热,其实两边百姓都不太好过,乃至全球经济都有滑坡的趋势,相信台湾那边也是吧。你能找到让你满意的工作,很棒拉。其实经济好,老板也还算大方的话,就算公司文化有一些问题,看在砸到脸上的钱,很多人还是会笑着再从地上捡起来。就怕老板要下面的人做事的时候只会摔键盘摔滑鼠,那就真受不了了
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